Dear Self (10-years-ago self)

You've just graduated Graduate School. And like any graduate, you've probably been asked "where do you see yourself in 10 years"? If I told you everything, you might make different decisions. But because we believe that everything happens for a reason, we need those things to happen. Even if they suck.

I will tell you this for sure. In 10 years, you will definitely be happy. Your life is pretty awesome. But here are a few things that won't change the game, but will make you even happier than you're already going to be.

1. Don't worry. Hard work will help you lose the weight.

2. Save more money when you get the chance to live rent free for 5 months. Seriously. Save.

3. You will get married. And when you do, take A LOT more time to visit with guests and dance with your friends. That day really will go by in the blink of an eye.

4. Stay strong as you try to start your family. There will be downs but boy, oh boy, they are worth it.

5. Spend more time with Mom and be patient with her. Trust me on this one.

6. It's ok to worry about your baby...all mothers worry about their kids. But don't let it consume you.

8. Going back to work will be really hard. But focus on your work when you're there. That's important.

9. Most of all, just know you're going to be happy. And at the end of the day that's really all you need to know.